tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post9156354635697204653..comments2023-06-21T08:44:57.810-07:00Comments on Me wanna talk talk and talk: On my mind right now...aneri_masihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08363429426292603118noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-33296148689251435512009-08-30T23:53:52.502-07:002009-08-30T23:53:52.502-07:00i am lot like you mentioned here. even i never mis...i am lot like you mentioned here. even i never missed my parents in my 3 years stint in US. people did ask me questions but i never cared. and same is with long lasting friends.geetnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-85456160077214174042009-08-07T22:08:40.067-07:002009-08-07T22:08:40.067-07:00Its human nature...however much we might refuse to...Its human nature...however much we might refuse to admit... we are all rolling stones... why we need to rolling stones.. ?? i guess you know..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-89224339291038930332009-07-23T22:21:03.850-07:002009-07-23T22:21:03.850-07:00@Angel, Nice to see you here :)
Yep, you got it, ...@Angel, Nice to see you here :) <br />Yep, you got it, I adapt! <br /><br />Just curious, how'd you find my blog?aneri_masihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08363429426292603118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-59032376929706921432009-07-23T22:16:28.515-07:002009-07-23T22:16:28.515-07:00Self Discoveries !
Hmmm.... :-)
I would say &qu...Self Discoveries ! <br />Hmmm.... :-)<br /><br /><br />I would say " u adapt easily " , and thats Gooooodd ! :-)Miss Komalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09650950486836618268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-25767024219601416772009-06-29T11:39:46.638-07:002009-06-29T11:39:46.638-07:00@ash, if you haven't gone away from your frien...@ash, if you haven't gone away from your friends and family and your town, then how do you know this is how you are? Maybe you are not.<br /><br />And it IS ok. Fighting what you feel is only going to make you miserable.<br /><br />@anon, but I don't think i made it sound offensive at all. I did make it clear that I care a LOT for all my friends and family, just am not miserable if they are not around. I guess it should make them happy that I am happy wherever I am :)aneri_masihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08363429426292603118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-45633279099679849052009-06-29T06:12:22.278-07:002009-06-29T06:12:22.278-07:00@AM - Well now everyone who knows you and has read...@AM - Well now everyone who knows you and has read your blog knows how you feel! :) <br /><br />@Ash - I think the comment on 'delusion' was a little strongly put. I don't think of it as delusional thinking to think the behavior is okay. But if you do feel strongly enough that you shouldn't be feeling emotionally detached from things, you probably aren't as emotionally detached, and while AM's shoe might seem like it fits your personality, it probably doesn't and you need to look into exactly why you 'think' you feel detached.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-29268121845091672782009-06-28T10:37:10.450-07:002009-06-28T10:37:10.450-07:00U know what? iam just like dat. But unfortunately ...U know what? iam just like dat. But unfortunately I havent moved anywhere! I've been in my hometown for all of my 22 years. I KNOW that it isn't normal. Wish i could delude myself into thinking its ok like u hve, that wud make life so much easier!Ashnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-64472306541481741732009-06-26T16:38:38.191-07:002009-06-26T16:38:38.191-07:00Oh I am a totally totally MISS MISS person !
But...Oh I am a totally totally MISS MISS person ! <br /><br />But no matter how much I miss someone today I know tomorrow I won't the same :) <br /><br /><br />I get bored by missing someone or the same person for long :) he heI amhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14768569924039692072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-36808852734045266342009-06-26T14:35:49.644-07:002009-06-26T14:35:49.644-07:00Anon, no no, I don't think I have ever said th...Anon, no no, I don't think I have ever said this to anyone either. That would be terribly rude! <br /><br />And I think, truth is no one really is all broken without anyone. Life just is like that. Even if you think you cannot live without someone, you sure can :)<br /><br />Its fine, you can keep your anonymity :)aneri_masihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08363429426292603118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-4408042175386556812009-06-26T12:22:16.815-07:002009-06-26T12:22:16.815-07:00Anon, would be nice to know who you are :)
See it...<b><i>Anon, would be nice to know who you are :)</i></b><br /><br />See it doesn't bother me that you want to know who I am. :) Seriously though, unlike you I am still not comfortable coming out of the 'cold' closet (unfortunately refridgerator just doesn't work as well here). <br /><br />Sometimes this emotionless feeling and the lack of sentiment during my own subsequent post mortem analysis scares me. It isn't something I feel comfortable telling people around me that, 'you know if you weren't around, I wouldn't really be all broken up, rather I would be just fine'.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-21971299917927415502009-06-25T18:25:41.499-07:002009-06-25T18:25:41.499-07:00@mySpace, I like that word :) Nirmohi :) Being det...@mySpace, I like that word :) Nirmohi :) Being detached is fine with me. But sometimes it sends the wrong message. I am not in touch with people I care about, and because of this they feel I don't care. And that's not true. You see what I mean? <br /><br />@Mia, yep, good it is :)aneri_masihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08363429426292603118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-57778358522217130352009-06-25T18:23:58.684-07:002009-06-25T18:23:58.684-07:00Anon, would be nice to know who you are :)
And ye...Anon, would be nice to know who you are :)<br /><br />And yes, its the same with me and the phone. Although, I think its a weirdness about me. I can email pages and pages to people, but I cannot talk on the phone :)<br /><br />@Cuckoo, well that is the point. I think of my friends and family all the time, but won't say I am in touch with them that much.aneri_masihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08363429426292603118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-11180853044999208982009-06-25T18:20:48.481-07:002009-06-25T18:20:48.481-07:00@Tanu, well, I don't miss ppl, no matter what....@Tanu, well, I don't miss ppl, no matter what. That was the point I was trying to make. Sure, I think about them, but I don't long for them to be near me.<br /><br />As for not caring for India...I think I will always care. Its second nature. In fact the politics is all the more reason to care. Politicians and their games are not what makes the country, its the people! You will say, well the people also didn't do much, still, I cannot stop thinking of Indians as my apna!aneri_masihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08363429426292603118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-81010703520205138312009-06-25T18:17:49.832-07:002009-06-25T18:17:49.832-07:00MD, :)
Ria, I think it is because I left so long ...MD, :)<br /><br />Ria, I think it is because I left so long ago, and have been by myself for so long. I just got conditioned this way.aneri_masihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08363429426292603118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-3285914524988432922009-06-25T12:30:35.987-07:002009-06-25T12:30:35.987-07:00well i think yur more of a practical person so u d...well i think yur more of a practical person so u dont emotionally attach yruself to an extent where it wud start pinching u....which in a way is good .....n i dont think u shud question it...as long as yur happy with the way things are thats what matters.....u are where u belong ....so good inne :)Mysterious Miahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16808323777692318141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-35270924403917947462009-06-25T04:39:39.458-07:002009-06-25T04:39:39.458-07:00Nirmohi!
Aneri i think you are really happy cos ...Nirmohi!<br /> Aneri i think you are really happy cos you have found the key to happiness...detachment!<br />Attachment to any person, place,event thing is bound to bring pain...<br />So good for you...I may not be as detached as you are but m getting there ;-)my spacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15558028124092198778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-9325917232292232252009-06-24T20:51:13.246-07:002009-06-24T20:51:13.246-07:00Do I have to say anything here ? You said it all a...Do I have to say anything here ? You said it all and yes, you are perfectly normal. :)<br /><br />I can't say I am exactly like you just coz I also didn't miss India on any front (except for the occasional urge of meeting my immediate family) when I was abroad. Some nostalgic memories are always there but that's a past and we move on w/o them bothering us. :)<br /><br />Some of us have the capability to adapt to our surroundings gracefully and happily. <br /><br /><i>I cannot truly create lasting relationships and friendships, no real bond.</i>... Are you sure ? It may not be a close friendship/relationship but lasting it can be if you happen to be in touch all the time. What do you say ?<br /><br />Nice post !! Forced me to comment here. :)Cuckoohttp://cuckooscosmos.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-6667079366946332352009-06-24T13:40:32.661-07:002009-06-24T13:40:32.661-07:00Interesting. You have encapsulated my sentiments e...Interesting. You have encapsulated my sentiments exactly. It sometimes seems that that part of me which ought to feel all those emotions is switched off. <br /><br />It never bothered me when I moved to the US, or the fact that I couldn't meet my family/friends. Most of the times I can't be bothered to call people and be proactive about staying in touch, because the things I do by myself (or immediate family) are infinitely more interesting than the effort it would take to pick up the phone. <br /><br />Sometimes I feel like something is wrong with me to feel this way, (which is different from thinking my thought process is wrong), but most of the time, I shrug and move on since I don't feel the loss in any case. Rather as you mentioned <b>I feel just fine</b>!<br /><br />I will leave you with a quote from <b>Lorraine Hansberry</b>, <i>"The thing that makes you exceptional, if you are at all, is inevitably that which must also make you lonely"</i>.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-44999531082741062842009-06-24T10:52:40.072-07:002009-06-24T10:52:40.072-07:00Hmm... lots of interesting, important and close re...Hmm... lots of interesting, important and close revelations and realization of the self.. <br /><br />:) <br /><br />Bold and Beautiful....<br /><br />I have started to feel that I belong to the world.. and people who are nice to me, am nice to them..and if they are nice enough...then I miss them and they miss me too... rest, my roots with India really matters as long as my family, close one exist there. I am only concerned about them and I will go back for them.. Rest the country as such does not matter to me anymore.. <br /><br />And this loss happened after the 26/11.. Its strange how politics effect us.. but I think it does..<br /><br />As long as my family is safe i don't really care about the national problems.. and as long as I can attend or take care of some of the non-family members...around the world..I am happy.. is what I think these days... <br /><br />As I belong to myself and the world... :)I amhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14768569924039692072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-50980490541902401952009-06-24T10:12:22.815-07:002009-06-24T10:12:22.815-07:00hmm..that was certainly interesting to know wht ki...hmm..that was certainly interesting to know wht kinda person u have been all this while. I hav rarely seen gals who can be so detached. Its good in a way, like u said u wudnt miss anything as such. And i like to appreciate ppl as they r so i will never say wht u hav mentioned in the last few lines. :) Its perfectly fine!!Riàhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00522045043501343739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-35085472929740571312009-06-24T02:58:18.264-07:002009-06-24T02:58:18.264-07:00hey, me like this too. I go wherever hubby goes. C...hey, me like this too. I go wherever hubby goes. Cheerfully!!Magical Homeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17571337569306994492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-27259840725181141812009-06-23T22:41:28.784-07:002009-06-23T22:41:28.784-07:00D, and there is nothing wrong with either one of u...D, and there is nothing wrong with either one of us :) We are perfect the way we are, don't u think?aneri_masihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08363429426292603118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-12986287318062886112009-06-23T22:40:46.655-07:002009-06-23T22:40:46.655-07:00D, I do want to come home after a vacation, and th...D, I do want to come home after a vacation, and that feels GREAT, but if I have to move somewhere, I have no qualms about it. And I am half the world away from my family for over a decade, never terribly terribly missed them, not even when I was going through some rough times. The people near me at that time were just as good, maybe even better since they treated me like the adult that I was, not the baby my parents think I am :) Some of these were TOTAL strangers too!aneri_masihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08363429426292603118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-54365676003567536742009-06-23T22:37:31.603-07:002009-06-23T22:37:31.603-07:00My oh my, what do I say but that this sounds total...My oh my, what do I say but that this sounds totally alien to me? When The Guy and I took a holiday for 20 days (the longest ever), we had actually begun to feel homesick! Even if I'm going out of town for a week, the sentimental fool that I am, I will call up my family to say bye-bye. I'm fatalistic like that - don't know if I'll return or not, so might as well say my goodbyes right now. Also, I'm 15 minutes away from my parents home and I miss them terribly!<br /><br />There's something wrong with me, I think!Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04279878087585603554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1187564373892064473.post-74248612772165414452009-06-23T21:15:03.607-07:002009-06-23T21:15:03.607-07:00@Arv, but whyyyy are you tempted to say it? I did ...@Arv, but whyyyy are you tempted to say it? I did say na, ke I am not worried? I am happy with the way things are. <br /><br />The heart is wherever I am, so home goes with me. I feel at home everywhere that I am welcomed :)aneri_masihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08363429426292603118noreply@blogger.com